Learning that some people don’t want my help has to be the most difficult lessons I have ever had to learn
It is painful
Watching someone suffer
Now I have learnt that it comes down to responsibility
It is ok not to help yourself but
(And this is the important bit)
It is not ok to blame others when we don’t take responsibility
I see this a lot
People who feel ‘responsible’ for others
There is only pain there.
Unless they are your children like my 4 and 5 year old.
It makes sense as no one can change but you right?
Like my client last night
In her late 70s, I was so happy to see the swelling on her feet going down
And proudly rotating her feet with more move on
Since I saw her last she had used her ginger, clove and black pepper oil on her feet
I made the blend to improve her circulation as she has diabetes, reduce swelling in her feet
For 3 weeks she didn’t touch it
But yesterday I saw her
She had also been doing the exercises I gave her and using her oil ever day
When I massaged her feet, they weren’t as painful as before and she has far more movement and less swelling.
And she was beaming
So was I